This is taken from a favorite associate, Jim McElwee:

“Today I’d like to talk about self confidence and its importance in the social hierarchy.  When you observe your family and friends interacting there is often an individual present who seems unconcerned of whether others are judging him or not and who clearly gets along without worrying about the small things that happen around them in a certain group.  This comes from two sources, one external and one internal.  Let’s explore the internal today.

An interesting exercise is to think to yourself in the quickest way possible to find a word that accurately describes you as a person in a short period of time.  Is the word a neutral observation?  If so, think about that neutral observation and see how you feel about it.  You’d be surprised how polarizing this can be for many people.  Even positive words can often be born out of a sense of desire rather than observation.  Take “confident,” for example.  Did that word pop into your head because you were feeling confident?  Or because you wanted confidence?  Was the word a physical feature you liked?  Or disliked?  Was it connected to something you’d like to accomplish?

Confidence is an incredibly important trait to possess, and the funny thing about it is it really does come from within.  Remember the analogy from last time about the mind as a garden.  Negative experiences that hurt our self confidence are like twisted vines that will try to choke out the good experiences.  And the good experiences can be multiplied by action.  If you’re talking to someone and you’re thinking the whole time subconsciously, “I don’t want to be rejected by this person,” they will pick up on it and wonder why you feel you should be rejected.  Occasionally these thoughts can be so strong that they can even bleed into the conscious.  We live in a society that thrives on apprehension and poor self image.  But if you can change that into strong self confidence, you’ll find that the less you worry about rejection the less you will experience it.  And when you don’t worry about it, even experiencing it won’t harm you as much as it once did.  Think of our entrainment therapy like a machine built by a skilled gardener to help remove this self doubt so you can start living the way you want.  You can always find our confidence boosting entrainment therapy at http://www.store. unexplainable.net/products/ confidence.php.  Check it out and live on your own terms.

Most communication happens on several levels.  On the level that we judge people most signs of self confidence are things that cannot be faked.  Aside from a few easy to see through “tricks” (men are told to take up as much space as possible while sitting, for example) there are no ways to truly pretend to be confident.  Imagine your voice like you’re singing a song.  A confident person will naturally hit the right notes that indicate they know what they’re doing.  If they are faking it, they will inevitably hit a false note and the facade will come crashing down.  The only way to truly achieve it is by feeling it first.

There’s no need for dehumanizing manuals that constantly remind you of things you hate, and that pretend that everyone in the world “gets it” except you.  Those manuals don’t know you and they don’t know anyone around you.  If you met some of the people who write those you would be surprised at how insecure they were too.  You do know what you’re doing.  And there’s no label hanging above your head.  Be who you want as soon as you’re ready to.

And that brings us to the most important change that must take place.  You must make a deeply rooted personal decision to be that confident person.  If you subconsciously feel like you deserve less than everyone around you, then you won’t change.  Make the change one of identity through visualization.  Imagine in your head a realistic version of who you’d really like to be.  Make this person real to you.  Give them hopes, aspirations, small victories, and a situation they can truly be proud of.  Don’t imagine the world around them changing to accommodate them.  Imagine them making changes to get what they want, and having a long term plan of where they want to go.  After visualizing it mentally, understand that you are your visualization.  Everything in them came from you.  And you can do everything they can with practice if you have a sense of self worth.

We’ve covered the internal aspects of confidence, but next time let’s take a look at some of the steps you can take on the outside to express your newly found confident self.  And remember, travel with a destination in mind.  Be confident, set goals, and achieve them.

Have a safe and enlightened journey!”

Jim McElwee
http://www.store. unexplainable.net

Yesterday is History.
Tomorrow is a Mystery.
And Today?

Today is a Gift…
That is why we call it the Present.

- Eleanor Rosevelt

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Sound is the medicine of the future.

- Edgar Cayce

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Be content with what you have;

Rejoice in the way things are.

When you realize there is nothing lacking,

The whole world belongs to you.

- Tao Te Ching

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This is taken from Wendy Kennedy’s website:

HigerFrequencies.Net

She’s a guest on my radio show, MYSTIC REALITY, Wednesday 1/27/10. Tune in @ 8:00 p.m. pst,

Wednesday on SpiritQuestRadio.com.

Wendy channels the 9th Dimensional Pleiadian Collective and has information for all of us for 2010 and beyond.

Allowing Yourself to Be Seen
- Ramshi, 12th Dimensional Master Geneticist / Universal Architect

With the shifting energy many of you are beginning new careers and jobs that are more in alignment with your higher self and life purpose. These jobs often blaze new trails. They challenge the established norm of how one is supposed to generate money and create. Because this is such a new feeling for many of you, you doubt your abilities. Many of these new jobs require you to learn new skills or rather utilize skills that have been lying dormant. You don’t “see yourself” as being qualified or having enough training or being “enough” of something (outgoing, creative, talkative, skilled, educated…) But we say this to you; once you acknowledge yourself and see yourself and all the many wonderful qualities you bring to the table, so will others for they mirror you and your belief system. If you require more clients, when you see you, so will they. You put out the “Open for Business” sign, so to speak.

Many of you worry about accreditation. “Do I have enough? I need more.” Much of what you pull into reality now is of a new vibration that does not have roots in the past (at least not the recent past), and therefore there is no accreditation. We ask you who did the accrediting in the first place? Those who managed along, finding their way, utilizing their inner judgment and guidance.

You will always attract to you the appropriate match. If you are a client who seeks a healer, you will find the one that is appropriate based on their vibration, not an accreditation. If you find yourself working with someone whose energy is not of the highest vibration, then you were not ready to be in that higher frequency. There is another lesson to learn. Through the Laws of Attraction and Resonance you always find the match or increase your vibration to match that which you seek. The fear that you will encounter a charlatan or that you will be perceived as such only occurs when a corresponding fear is present. As a Creator Being you manifest the experience to encounter the fear, observe it and release it. You are not a victim. As you see yourself in the driver’s seat, attracting the vibrationally appropriate people into your life, you breathe deeper as you no longer see yourself in the victim role.

All of you, without exception, have access to unlimited information. You have “soul training”, if you will. You need only raise your consciousness. We hear you all sighing and saying, “I’ve tried. It doesn’t work. I want to remember, but I can’t.” You can, but you process the information through different levels of your consciousness. Retrieving the “soul” information requires you to shift your brain waves into another frequency. This you do naturally throughout the day. As you understand how your brain functions you can learn to shift brain frequencies at will. Frequency ranges can be used like locks and keys. You can restrict access to information based on the selected frequency. The conscious mind has limited access to soul records so that a unique and limited perspective can create a filter for the current life from which to have experiences. Ah, the beauty of density! In no other dimension do you experience reality in such a way. See yourselves, dear ones. Acknowledge yourselves as Creator Beings, for that is what will be required to increase your vibration and manifest the life you dream of.

As many of you begin to recognize yourselves, you often trigger another fear, that of persecution. “If I am a light on the grid I will be extinguished.” Many of you are working on releasing and integrating those aspects of self that created a “victim” experience. Your history on the planet is riddled with persecution, judgment and ostracization and continues on today. But remember, dear ones, this is only a perception. When you place yourself firmly in the driver’s seat of Creation, you determine what occurs to you. It doesn’t happen upon you. As you hold more light and release fear, those of lower frequencies must match your frequency to be in your presence. Only through a vibrational match will you recreate the persecution, and in so doing, allow yourself an opportunity to see why you created it, how it was of service, and release judgment thus integrating the experience.

You have much support, dear ones. There are many of you who will stand and shine your light and who are currently doing so. Take heart in knowing you are not alone and that this will be your new way of being, standing in your full power as Creators. This is the game you have constructed for yourselves, and it is achieved through the process of ascension.

Embrace it. Enjoy it. Be it.

The following is taken from Agape’s newsletter. It’s wonderfully inspiring for all of us…

Rev. Michael Beckwith says that when you talk about what you can’t afford you are actually blaspheming God. He says the only thing you can’t afford is the luxury of a negative thought! (You’ve probably heard it before, but it bears repeating.) Beyond that, there is nothing that you can’t afford.

Here’s what you can afford! You can afford to pay attention to the new ideas that are coming forth through and as your true nature. You can afford to live your life fully, joyfully and completely.

You can afford to be compassionate, patient, forgiving and caring.

You can afford to be gracious, understanding, kind and generous. That’s right.

This only appears to be a dog-eat-dog, might-makes-right, my-way-or-the-highway kind of world. In fact, or in truth, it’s not the ‘world’ you’re living in! You live in a Universe that is friendly and supportive. Don’t believe me?

Bring your attention back to the Presence and see how It attunes you to Its vibration.

See how your Universe opens up for giving and receiving. See how your experience becomes an adventure in opportunities where you have nothing to lose, and everything to gain and to give.

You can afford the energy to exercise, excel and express.

You can explore, exalt and expand your horizons by enrolling in one of the exhilarating classes offered by the Agape University of Transformational Studies and Leadership.

Go to www.AgapeLive.com for more information

The Rev says that a lie believed acts as a law until it is neutralized.

You are not too poor to pay attention to that which is real.

Neutralize the negative by accentuating the positive.

Say, “I stand in the awareness of plenitude. Life is for me.

I evict the thought that anything can be against me!!

I accept the thought that everything is working together for my good now!!”

Now you’re talking! Watch how what you affirm and accept for yourself becomes your life experience.

Where God left off, is  with brilliance, greatness and more-than-enough-ness poised to express as you.

Accept only suggestions of truth. Then go forth and multiply the consciousness. Or, as Rev. Michael puts it, “Run tell that!”

If you’ve yet to experience Agape, learn about this fabulous place of inspiration and truth.

It might be just what you  need to stay focused on and connected to your Higher Power in this world.

Acceptance.

You are who you are today as a result of all your past experiences. Even what you may see as a negative experience can be translated as a positive way to know things you’d otherwise not have the wisdom about today..

Knowledge cannot be discarded and it comes in all kind of shapes and ways, through experiences, insights and understandings.

Live life to the fullest knowing that you’re always a perfect spirit though you may encounter the weakness of the flesh from time to time.

Accept that today you’re whole, you’re well, you’re perfect., exactly as you are.

Let go of the judgement, the guilt, the pain. Heal through your tears, washing away the “stuff” that does not serve to promote your best self.

Put it all on a large barge, drifting off into the ocean, moving so far off into the distance that it disappears.

It is no longer a part of who you are. The wisdom and knowledge of the experience is there to serve you in self empowerment; helping others; becoming a stronger and more vital person and positive influence to the planet.

With acceptance and self love you can easily propel yourself forward to accomplish whatever it is you want to have in your life.

First, accept yourself, just as you are. This is the first and most important step to changing, growing, moving forward and becoming more of who you want to be and what you want to have in your life.

As we continue through the end of this year, leave behind all of the pain, guilt, sadness, anger, fear, anxiety in 2009.

Anxiety is often unexpressed pain. Stress is pain which is showing up in a different way.

Let’s Begin 2010 with a sense of clarity to bring to you exactly what you deserve…happiness, love, health, wealth, passion, joy, creativity, relationships, and anything else your heart desires for your good.

I share this with you today as a result of my own personal clearing process I have been heavily and deeply moving through these past 2 weeks. With the shifting of consciousness, the energy of our world, my own transformation into a clearer, being.

If you are experiencing similar things, dealing with anxiety, grief, high emotions, I can help you through it.

Leave it all behind and start 2010 with a fresh, focused you!

We manifest prosperity, health, love, etc coming from a place of peace within ourselves.

Our stuuf can often be in the way of bringing in all of our good.

Just              let                     it                           go                         now.

In the early 1990’s, Dr. Candice Pert made an amazing discovery that tells you exactly why you manifest abundance, health, relationships, etc., or why you do not.

While Dr. Pert was the chief molecular biologist for the National Institutes of Health she discovered that your thoughts are real, physical things. Your thoughts become molecules the instant you think them and, as a deliberate attractor, you need to know how those molecules interact with your body.

Every time you have a thought, your hypothalamus (a “control center” near the base of your brain) transforms that thought into millions of neuropeptides (amino acids) which represent the dominant emotion associated with that thought. Your thought becomes a molecular messenger of emotion! And then your bloodstream is flooded with these neuropeptides.

When in your bloodstream, these neuropeptides, into which your thought transformed, actually insert themselves into your cells. Each neuropeptide interlocks with a special receptacle (made just for it) on your cell’s membrane – just like a lock fitting into a keyhole. And then that amino acid is absorbed by your cell.

Over time, Dr. Pert found, your cells develop more and more special receptacles for the neuropeptides to which they are most exposed. And over time your cells create a self-fulfilling emotional prophecy for you. Your cells begin to crave the neuropeptides to which they are most exposed (and have built all the receptacles for) and they “tell” your hypothalamus to produce them.

Your cells love neuropeptides so much that they cover their membranes with nothing but receptacles for them. Actually shutting down other vital functions, your cells become nothing but vessels for these neuropeptides. They become like a drug addict, who abandons family, jobs, friends, and personal wellbeing as she chases the drug.

The only way your hypothalamus can produce the neuropeptides craved by your cells, is for your brain to experience the emotions which will create them. And the only way your brain can experience the emotions necessary to create those neuropeptides is for it to create a reality which will elicit those emotions.

Your body has, literally, become physically addicted to certain emotional states. And, having nothing to do with whether those emotional states feel good or bad, your cells now need them like an addict needs drugs.

So if you’ve spent years thinking, “People don’t like me,” “I’m useless,” “I can’t do that,” or “I’m not very smart,” you’ve physically addicted your body, on a cellular level, to the neuropeptides which represent shame, guilt, unworthiness, and/or self-doubt. And the same goes for any emotion you’ve dominantly exposed to your cells. Your cells have become addicted to those neuropeptides and are asking for them all day, every day.

And since you already know that “reality” is completely subjective based on the expectations of the observer, (what you are choosing to see) you can see how easy it is for you to create a reality that causes those emotions your cells are craving.

You can create any reality you choose and your cells are dictating what reality you will see.

You can begin to learn to actively change these thought patterns by simply by appreciating the things you’re already doing and then begin to feel and realize just how much more value they hold for you.

I can help you with the things you don’t know how to do to make the transistion from where you are to where you want to be.

Generally, we are raised to feel that putting ourselves first is selfish,

impolite and just don’t do it.

When it comes to having self love for ourself and clearing out the

things that aren’t working in your life, you have to put ourself first.

You are your own first priority.

Its the same as putting on your oxygen mask on in an airplane so you can then

put the oxygen mask on your child’s face or assist someone else.

You have to take care of your ability to breath first, in order to help anyone else.

In your life, you need to come from a place of strength and stability

so you don’t get thrown off balance or become depleted, before you give to others.

We don’t serve the world by holding ourselves back.

What is it that you need to do in order to better serve yourself

and in turn enable yourself to give in a richer way to life…

your family, your work, your passions, your relationships?

We serve the world by empowering ourself with self love.

Self empowerment comes through self love.

If you don’t have self love, your continually seeking this fulfillment from others.

Feed your soul with love for yourself first,

then flow that love out into the world from your source from within yourself.

This is a direct quote from Abraham-Hicks:

Whatever you are giving your attention to is already vibrating.

And when you give your attention to it, if you maintain your focus for as little as

17 seconds, you begin to include its vibration, whatever it is, in your vibration.

When you see something you want, and you give it your attention,

and you say yes to it, you are including whatever its vibration is in your vibration.

When you see something you do not want, and you shout no at it,

you are including whatever its vibration is in your vibration.

In this vibrational world, which is everything, you are far more

vibrational beings than you are verbal beings.

You are communicating with everyone far more on a vibrational basis,

than you are on a verbal basis.

— Abraham

Taken from an unknown quote:

“May today there be peace within you.

May you trust that you are exactly where you are meant to be.

May you not forget the infinite possibilities

that are born of faith in yourself and others.

May you use the gifts that you have received,

and pass on the love that has been given to you.

May you be content with yourself just the way you are.

Let this knowledge settle into your bones, and allow

your soul the freedom to sing, dance, praise and love.

It is there for each and every one of us.” end of quote

And from me, Edey Caldwell,

“May all your dreams come true,

simply because you deserve them and they can.”

First, you have peace of mind, then this  brings in the prosperity.

I know it seems that having prosperity will bring peace of mind,

of course it does.

However, first we create a feeling of peace of mind,

then that state of mind and those emotions….

allows the prosperity and abundance to come in.